This is my son, Chester, who is nearly 4. He was invited to his friend Chloe’s birthday party today, the theme was prince and princesses. He asked if he could go as Sleeping Beauty, so I bought him a dress and put a cute little clip in his hair.

We arrived at the party to the following comments from the adults present:
“Oh that is just cruel.”

"Why did you make him wear a dress?"

"Poor little man, what’s your mummy playing at?"

"He’s going to hate you when he grows up."

"No way I’d let my son dress like a girl."

The fact is, Chester is almost completely gender neutral. I let him wear what he wants, be it boys or girls clothes, and he plays with whatever toys he likes. This usually involves him holding tea parties while wearing his pink Minnie Mouse top, jeans and a tiara. The guests are more often than not a mixture of Winnie The Pooh characters, dinosaurs, Barbie, Dora and solders, and they’re usually transported in his favorite fire engine.

When my husband arrived at the party later on, he was subjected to endless ridicule from the other dad’s present about how I must keep his balls in my back pocket because otherwise he would have put his foot down and not allowed Chester out like that. Oh, and by the way, our other son dressed as Ariel. When my husband pointed out that the boys were happy, and the mother of the birthday child made a point of saying how wonderful she thought it was that we allowed them freedom of choice and expression, they then stopped talking about it to our faces and started muttering about us behind our backs.

Interestingly enough, not a single child said a word about their choice of costumes, other than to compliment Chester on his new dress.

not a single child made a negative comment

not a single child made a negative comment

not a single child made a negative comment

this is important


that’s it. that’s the movie



I take this to mean that since I reblogged, I am now immortal. 



He popped the first two. Now he carries this one very gently


I don’t know where to even start

I really don’t have words anymore for this man just please stop him 


Finished them \*o*/ My two favourite (anime) things combined! Also posted on pixiv:

PPPM ☆ PKMN | hitsu [pixiv]

Now I need to… do Christmas stuff… like all my Christmas shopping fml



my mom bought this thing for my neck and it’s called “Happy Neck”


i’m happy

It’s definitely more fun playing a bad guy. It feels a lot better than playing one of the good guys.
  • genie: u got 3 wishes
  • me: accurate bisexual representation in the media
  • me: widespread acceptance that bisexuality is a real thing that exists and that people identify as and are
  • me: dragons


according to USA Today, the average tumblr user spends 2.5 hours a month on tumblr


more like 2.5 hours an hour.


So my mom got a new tattoo today



break the rules

no gods no kings no masters